There’s a type of person every business quietly relies on.
The one who notices when things aren’t working.
The one who builds the spreadsheet, fixes the workflow, or reorganizes the chaos before anyone else realizes there’s a problem.
They don’t usually have the flashiest title.
But the business would fall apart without them.
In this week’s episode of The OBM Show, I’m talking with Rae Raczka, Accredited OBM and founder of The Ops Collective, about what happens when that person finally realizes the way they’re working isn’t sustainable.
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Prefer to listen? This episode is also available as a podcast on the OBM Show Podcast here.
When Being “The Reliable One” Starts to Hurt
Rae’s career started the way many operators do, by taking on more and more responsibility because she was capable of handling it.
By the time she was 25, she was managing operations, payroll, bookkeeping, and accounting across five entities in three countries.
She was the person making sure everything stayed organized.
Everything kept running.
Everything stayed accurate.
But the cost of carrying that responsibility was enormous.
She was working 60–65 hour weeks, constantly under pressure, and the stress had reached the point where she was experiencing chest pains almost daily.
At the same time, her husband worked the opposite shift, which meant they rarely saw each other outside of brief moments between schedules.
Something had to give.
The Decision That Changed Everything
Rae told me the moment everything clicked happened during a meeting.
She was explaining why proper expense tracking mattered and how the systems needed to work across the different offices.
Her boss agreed with her.
Until the conversation became inconvenient.
Then he cut her off and said, “Let’s just forget about it.”
That moment made something painfully clear.
She was carrying the responsibility for the work, but she didn’t have real control over how it was done.
And that was the day she decided to leave.
How Her Job Became Her First Client
Walking away from a stable job is rarely simple.
Rae even accepted another position before changing her mind at the last minute and deciding to start her own business instead.
But something unexpected happened.
Within a week of her leaving, the other operations person at the company resigned too. Suddenly the business had no one running the backend.
So Rae made them an offer.
She would come back and support the company, but not as an employee.
This time she would be a contractor.
She set her hours.
She set the structure.
And she created boundaries around the work.
The company agreed.
And just like that, the role that had been overwhelming her became her first OBM client.
Why This Story Matters
Many people assume Online Business Managers come from the online space.
But in reality, a huge number of OBMs start exactly where Rae did.
Inside corporate roles where they were already managing operations, coordinating teams, and designing processes that kept the business functioning.
The skills were always there.
What changes is the structure.
Instead of being the person quietly carrying everything behind the scenes, OBMs step into a role where they intentionally design the systems that keep a business running.
And that shift changes everything.
The Next Step
If this episode resonated and you’re beginning to see how your operational experience could translate into the Online Business Manager role, the next step is understanding what that path actually looks like.
OBM Accreditation helps experienced operators step fully into the OBM role by strengthening operational leadership, strategic decision-making, and the systems that allow businesses to grow sustainably.
For business owners who are ready to bring operational leadership into their company, you can explore the Directory of Accredited OBMs or be matched with the right partner through OBM School’s matchmaking process.
